When You Feel Like Giving Up, Keep Buggering On. Haters Going To Hate

 Life rarely runs smoothly. If you feel as though things are going great and that you have a tremendous run of form and happiness, it is likely that you will start to hear a voice in the back of your heard warning you about what may come next. This is perfectly natural. When things are going well, people will often worry that a downturn is coming, but you must fight past these voices and just make sure you do the things that have you got to a happy place.

Then again, it is probably more likely that there will be days when you feel like giving up. If things are going well, don’t analyse them but when you are struggling, or you are dealing with too many idiots, you will stop and wonder why this is happening to you. There are many people who like seeing other people fail in life, and it must be said, these people are bad buggers. Knowing who these people are and knowing how to deal with the haters in life will help make life easier.

Shake it off, shake it off

As the fantastic Taylor Swift sang; “'Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play; And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate” and that is pretty much all the inspiration you need to remember in life. No matter what you do, there will be people lining up to moan, complain or attempt to bring you down. In fact, the better you are, the more people will find something to moan about and the more vociferous people will be.

There are many reasons why “haters” act like this. They are probably jealous of what you are achieving and of the fun or success that you are enjoying. There is also a lot to be said for the fact that they are angry at themselves for not achieving what you have done, and they are lashing out at others. Many people don’t like to take themselves to task, it is easier to try and drag others down to their level as opposed to lift themselves up to yours, and sadly, this means that you may be on the receiving end of their criticism and moans.

Take criticism as a compliment

It is difficult, but you must take this sort of interaction and engagement as a compliment. If other people are so interested in your life, you must be doing something right or have something of interest going on.

Ultimately, if you are happy with what you are doing, that is the main thing. You will want to make sure your loved ones are happy, if you can please your family that is a wonderful thing and of course, life is much simpler if your boss appreciates what you do but in the long-run, it is all about you. If you are happy and you think that you are taking the right path in life, then keep buggering along that path and make the most out of your life.

If the annoying people are threatening to derail your life, stop and take a breather and get back to basics. Drink more water, get more sleep, get some exercise, take care of your face with Beard Spunk products and smile about the fact that your life is so important that other people feel as though they must comment on it. Don’t let the buggers get you down.

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